{"id":278,"date":"2014-01-10T20:27:50","date_gmt":"2014-01-10T19:27:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/andilee.com\/blog\/?p=278"},"modified":"2014-01-10T20:27:50","modified_gmt":"2014-01-10T19:27:50","slug":"year-living-generously","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/andilee.com\/blog\/2014\/01\/year-living-generously\/","title":{"rendered":"A Year of Living Generously"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve long despised the idea of making New Year&#8217;s resolutions, because they are usually overly ambitious and rarely last the month. But, I made one this year (which broke a previous one &#8211; &#8220;Never to make another New Year&#8217;s resolution&#8221;). I made this exception because I&#8217;ve been overwhelmed by the generosity of others in the past year. My last blog post about <a title=\"Mental Health: A plea for understanding\" href=\"http:\/\/andilee.com\/blog\/2013\/12\/plea-understanding\/\" target=\"_blank\">Mental Health<\/a>\u00a0provoked a huge amount of feedback and all of it was kind, generous, understanding and helpful. So, I decided to spend a year living generously. With my time, with my money, with my ideas, with my skills and so on. To share. To help. To make people happier.\u00a0It&#8217;s not that I&#8217;m not a generous person anyway, I certainly can be, but I mean, this year, to do\u00a0it actively and consciously.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of last year, I read an article, while flying, about an idea called &#8220;<a title=\"Because I said I would\" href=\"http:\/\/becauseisaidiwould.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Because I said I would<\/a>.&#8221; The idea really struck home, and I made hundreds of the cards and gave them away to colleagues and friends. I like the concreteness of stating the idea, not just somehow having it as a part of a personal philosophy, but as an active statement of how I choose to live.\u00a0So, combining these two ideas here is my new year&#8217;s resolution:<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_281\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-281\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/andilee.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/YearOfLivingGenerously.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-281\" alt=\"I promise to live generously in 2014\" src=\"http:\/\/andilee.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/YearOfLivingGenerously-300x167.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"167\" srcset=\"https:\/\/andilee.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/YearOfLivingGenerously-300x167.jpg 300w, https:\/\/andilee.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/YearOfLivingGenerously.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-281\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">#YearOfLivingGenerously<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>As a strong believer in the idea of &#8216;giving back&#8217;, I want to promote the idea of a &#8220;Year of Living Generously&#8221; more widely &#8211; I&#8217;ve created the hashtag on Twitter\u00a0<a title=\"Year of Living Dangerously\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/#YearOfLivingGenerously\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/twitter.com\/#YearOfLivingGenerously<\/a>\u00a0and I&#8217;d love to have others join in. All I ask is that you just use that hastag after doing something generous: it can be anything. You don&#8217;t (and this is important) have to say what you&#8217;ve done &#8211; though you can, just put the tag out there. It&#8217;s not a #humblebrag, it&#8217;s not about who can be the most generous, it&#8217;s not a competition. It&#8217;s just to remind ourselves to be generous in our daily lives.<\/p>\n<p>Here are a few things that I&#8217;ve done in the past 9 days &#8211; I&#8217;m not saying it to garner praise, just to demonstrate what I&#8217;m meaning<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Gave a shoeshine guy an extra tip because someone had been rude to him and he laughed it off and started singing<\/li>\n<li>Left the change from $20 as a tip on a $3 coffee without the server seeing me do it<\/li>\n<li>Sent a book to someone who expressed interest in it<\/li>\n<li>Bought drinks for all the staff at my favorite sushi bar<\/li>\n<li>Gave a $100 tip (wrapped inside the $10 fare) to a taxi driver who was upset because his meter had broken and he&#8217;d missed an hour of revenue getting it fixed &#8211; he was generous enough to talk to me about his life and why he drives a cab<\/li>\n<li>Lifted bags into the overhead bins for other people on a flight<\/li>\n<li>Fed parking meters with quarters when I&#8217;ve seen them expired with a car parked there<\/li>\n<li>Left a $20 dollar tip at Starbucks because some moronic website has been set up to protest their stance on marriage equality<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You can think of others, and really, they don&#8217;t have to be money, and they don&#8217;t have to be extravagant.<\/p>\n<p>Giving your time, your skills, your ideas, your support, your kindness &#8211; all of these are perhaps even better than just giving money. It&#8217;s more about an attitude, to be grateful for the opportunity to be generous, not to do things grudgingly or with bitter resentment.<\/p>\n<p>Do what you can to make a difference to the happiness of others, and do it generously.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve long despised the idea of making New Year&#8217;s resolutions, because they are usually overly ambitious and rarely last the month. But, I made one this year (which broke a previous one &#8211; &#8220;Never to make another New Year&#8217;s resolution&#8221;). I made this exception because I&#8217;ve been overwhelmed by the generosity of others in the &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/andilee.com\/blog\/2014\/01\/year-living-generously\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">A Year of Living Generously<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[64,83,4,156],"tags":[157,16,158,159,179],"class_list":["post-278","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-atheism-2","category-philanthropy","category-philosophy","category-yearoflivinggenerously","tag-yearoflivinggenerously-2","tag-atheism","tag-generosity","tag-kindness","tag-philanthropy"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>A Year of Living Generously - Andi:Blog<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"A Year of Living Generously, Giving back and living an actively generous life\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/andilee.com\/blog\/2014\/01\/year-living-generously\/\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Andrew Lee\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\\\/\\\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/andilee.com\\\/blog\\\/2014\\\/01\\\/year-living-generously\\\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/andilee.com\\\/blog\\\/2014\\\/01\\\/year-living-generously\\\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Andrew Lee\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/andilee.com\\\/blog\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/1538a18bd974f2e65a838fc4de004171\"},\"headline\":\"A Year of Living Generously\",\"datePublished\":\"2014-01-10T19:27:50+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/andilee.com\\\/blog\\\/2014\\\/01\\\/year-living-generously\\\/\"},\"wordCount\":632,\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/andilee.com\\\/blog\\\/2014\\\/01\\\/year-living-generously\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"http:\\\/\\\/andilee.com\\\/blog\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2014\\\/01\\\/YearOfLivingGenerously-300x167.jpg\",\"keywords\":[\"#YearOfLivingGenerously\",\"atheism\",\"generosity\",\"kindness\",\"Philanthropy\"],\"articleSection\":[\"Atheism\",\"Philanthropy\",\"Philosophy\",\"YearOfLivingGenerously\"],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/andilee.com\\\/blog\\\/2014\\\/01\\\/year-living-generously\\\/\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/andilee.com\\\/blog\\\/2014\\\/01\\\/year-living-generously\\\/\",\"name\":\"A Year of Living Generously - 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